Soon she was training mistresses around the world, adapting to each city’s style of kink. Tokyo, for example, was all about wild situations. “One of my oldest clients, 70 years old, he’d get dressed in a chicken suit, and I’d laugh at him. That was our whole session,” Payne says. Spanking and paddling is big in London, while in New York, the dom scene celebrates brainy games and the element of fun. “It’s about mind-fucking,” she says, referring to her favorite kind of work. Private domination sessions with Payne start at $250 per hour, with no sexual exchange on offer. The rest of the time, she’s teaching others how to dominate—and prepping for all her foot worship and flesh fondling. “I’m constantly getting manicures and pedicures,” she says. —Allison Williams
What you’ll learn:
Know what you’re doing when spanking, says Payne: “You don’t just throw someone against the wall, tear off their clothes and beat the shit out of them.”1. The proper first step is putting the “pet” to be punished in a proper position: hands up with the butt out, across a lap or bent over a table. Then comes the prep, which is as important as the smack itself. “Slowly and seductively take off the pants and roll them down,” says Payne. “It’s important to whisper in their ear what a naughty pet they are and they have to be punished.”
2. Then lightly cup the hand; this isn’t a fist fight. Head for the “sweet spot” at the fattest part of the butt cheek, increasing force with each strike.
3. Don’t forget some post-spank moves, says Payne: “When you’ve been spanking someone, you create sensitivity. Run the nails down the skin; it’s an intense sensation.
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